How do you deal with arguments in a relationship?
I have been dating my current boyfriend for almost 2 years now and everything has been going smoothly. We rarely fight and we love each other so much. However, last week, I spent $500 on my hair even though we are on a budget so we can buy a house. When my fiance saw the bill, he was very unhappy and we started arguing about how I spent the money. I apologized but remained adamant that he was not ready to forgive me. For three days now, he hasn't talked to me no matter what I do. How do I deal with this argument in my relationship and get my fiance to talk to me again?
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I understand there are many ways to tell if a man is the right one for you from the little experience I have gathered. Palpable physical chemistry, or physical attraction, if you find yourselves attracted to each other, if both of you are happy when you hold hands or look at each other even after years of being together. When he has a genuine interest in your life, if he cares about the things that you care about or truly listens whenever you talk about things that you are passionate about. If he is a kind and trustworthy person. Does he speak about good and not abusive things? If he's honest with you and doesn't keep secrets from you. If both of you have the same fundamental values and beliefs i.e you both have the same goals or agree on basic things. Has he changed you for the better. Has he been a positive influence in your life? Answers to those questions will tell you what you need to know
