What are your thoughts on dating someone who is already in a relationship?
I feel like I might get some backlash for this, but I'll still ask my question. Two years ago, I met a guy at a Christmas party. We connected and vibed with each other. It was an instant attraction. However, we couldn't take it further because he was in a relationship, but we continued talking as friends, although our attraction to each other did not lessen any. Over time, I have fallen in overwhelming love with this man, and I'm contemplating throwing caution to the wind and dating him. What are your thoughts on dating someone already in a relationship?
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Heck no. I just wouldn't in the first place. That's a no win situation.
Yeah it is a hard game. It will be all messed up unfortunately.
Hello Isabella,
I actually just stopped talking to a guy I met for only a week.. bc he told me he was " in a relationship that he doesn't want to be in" regardless he wanted to be in that one or not he still is. I wouldn't want that done to me so I'm not going to do it to someone else. Even though I really did like him from the moment I met him. He needs to do the right thing and leave the relationship he's in now and think about what he really wants. Also here's a HUGE clue.. if he's doing to his gf now.. he's going to do it to you eventually.. so I'm sure he has your number. Let him come to you. But keep what he's doing behindher back in mind.